Archive for May, 2015

They keep coming up new
all the time – things to
perplex you, you know.
You settle one question
and there’s another right
after. There are so many
things to be thought over
and decided when you’re
beginning to grow up. It
keeps me busy all the time
thinking them over and
deciding what’s right. It’s
a serious thing to grow
up, isn’t it, Marilla?
L.M. Montgomery , Anne of
Green Gables

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It’s the irrational excitement that gets your heart to tripple it’s beats at the glance of a lover,
It’s the thrill of a rollercoaster ride,
It’s the frisson of electrifying electricity at the barest touch of a soul mate,
It’s the gentle breeze on a hot day,
It’s the appearance of the sun on a gloomy winter morning,
It’s the relief of waking up from a bad dream,

It’s the immediate shock at receiving bad news,
It’s the dejection you feel at rejection,
It’s the horror of a nightmare,
It’s the understandable fear of heights,
It’s the irrational phobia of dragons,
It’s the complete dislike of a moonless night,

Both sides are truly even when you love solitude.
V.O

She can feel the beginnings of a nasty headache, steadily creeping in from the base of her neck, meandering excitedly into her overworked brain-she feels it traipsing it’s arrogant gait around the toughened walls of her skull, completely ready to thump at her unfortunate head over and over until she can’t function anymore. Until her brain refuses to think up plots and similes and expressions and locations.
But- these pages must show. These currently blank pages must fill up right before her tired eyes.
It’s an expected struggle between her brain and her hands.
Like a petulant child throwing a tantrum, her brain is sulking-it’s white matter and it’s veins and nerves and arteries are all struck numb.
“No, we won’t think up more stuff for you, ”
“No, you can’t write tonight, ”
“It’s late you need to sleep. WE need to sleep,
But her hands rebel against her rebellious brain as she stares down at her blank pages.
Scribbling unintelligible words, she can feel the development of a plot.
Tonight, a new love poem will grace the earth,
Tomorrow, if her brain behaves, it might be a short story set in ancient Egypt, she doesn’t know-she can’t rely on her brain,
Sometimes he rebells for months, guffawing stupidly as she sits and stares at her invisible pages,
Sometimes she hears him whispering that it’s not his fault that she can’t write-why is she blaming him, he asks-
She doesn’t have an appropriate answer to his question,
So there she is, impatiently waiting for her brain to come back from his long vacation,
For these pages must show.
V.O

“Date a girl who doesn’t read. Find her in
the weary squalor of a Midwestern bar. Find
her in the smoke, drunken sweat, and
varicolored light of an upscale nightclub.
Wherever you find her, find her smiling. Make
sure that it lingers when the people that are
talking to her look away. Engage her with
unsentimental trivialities. Use pick-up lines
and laugh inwardly. Take her outside when
the night overstays its welcome. Ignore the
palpable weight of fatigue. Kiss her in the
rain under the weak glow of a streetlamp
because you’ve seen it in film. Remark at its
lack of significance. Take her to your
apartment. Dispatch with making love. Fuck
her.
Let the anxious contract you’ve unwittingly
written evolve slowly and uncomfortably into
a relationship. Find shared interests and
common ground like sushi, and folk music.
Build an impenetrable bastion upon that
ground. Make it sacred. Retreat into it every
time the air gets stale, or the evenings get
long. Talk about nothing of significance. Do
little thinking. Let the months pass
unnoticed. Ask her to move in. Let her
decorate. Get into fights about
inconsequential things like how the fucking
shower curtain needs to be closed so that it
doesn’t fucking collect mold. Let a year pass
unnoticed. Begin to notice. Figure that you
should probably get married because you will
have wasted a lot of time otherwise. Take
her to dinner on the forty-fifth floor at a
restaurant far beyond your means. Make
sure there is a beautiful view of the city.
Sheepishly ask a waiter to bring her a glass
of champagne with a modest ring in it. When
she notices, propose to her with all of the
enthusiasm and sincerity you can muster. Do
not be overly concerned if you feel your
heart leap through a pane of sheet glass.
For that matter, do not be overly concerned
if you cannot feel it at all. If there is
applause, let it stagnate. If she cries, smile
as if you’ve never been happier. If she
doesn’t, smile all the same.
Let the years pass unnoticed. Get a career,
not a job. Buy a house. Have two striking
children. Try to raise them well. Fail,
frequently. Lapse into a bored indifference.
Lapse into an indifferent sadness. Have a
mid-life crisis. Grow old. Wonder at your lack
of achievement. Feel sometimes contented,
but mostly vacant and ethereal. Feel, during
walks, as if you might never return, or as if
you might blow away on the wind. Contract a
terminal illness. Die, but only after you
observe that the girl who didn’t read never
made your heart oscillate with any
significant passion, that no one will write
the story of your lives, and that she will die,
too, with only a mild and tempered regret
that nothing ever came of her capacity to
love.
Do those things, because nothing sucks worse
than a girl who reads. Do it, I say, because a
life in purgatory is better than a life in hell.
Do it, because a girl who reads possesses a
vocabulary that can describe that amorphous
discontent as a life unfulfilled—a vocabulary
that parses the innate beauty of the world
and makes it an accessible necessity instead
of an alien wonder. A girl who reads lays
claim to a vocabulary that distinguishes
between the specious and soulless rhetoric of
someone who cannot love her, and the
inarticulate desperation of someone who
loves her too much. A vocabulary, god damnit,
that makes my vacuous sophistry a cheap
trick. Do it, because a girl who reads
understands syntax. Literature has taught
her that moments of tenderness come in
sporadic but knowable intervals. A girl who
reads knows that life is not planar; she
knows, and rightly demands, that the ebb
comes along with the flow of disappointment.
A girl who has read up on her syntax senses
the irregular pauses—the hesitation of
breath—endemic to a lie. A girl who reads
perceives the difference between a
parenthetical moment of anger and the
entrenched habits of someone whose bitter
cynicism will run on, run on well past any
point of reason, or purpose, run on far after
she has packed a suitcase and said a
reluctant goodbye and she has decided that I
am an ellipsis and not a period and run on
and run on. Syntax that knows the rhythm
and cadence of a life well lived.
Date a girl who doesn’t read because the girl
who reads knows the importance of plot. She
can trace out the demarcations of a prologue
and the sharp ridges of a climax. She feels
them in her skin. The girl who reads will be
patient with an intermission and expedite a
denouement. But of all things, the girl who
reads knows most the ineluctable significance
of an end. She is comfortable with them. She
has bid farewell to a thousand heroes with
only a twinge of sadness.
Don’t date a girl who reads because girls who
read are the storytellers. You with the
Joyce, you with the Nabokov, you with the
Woolf. You there in the library, on the
platform of the metro, you in the corner of
the café, you in the window of your room.
You, who make my life so god damned
difficult. The girl who reads has spun out the
account of her life and it is bursting with
meaning. She insists that her narratives are
rich, her supporting cast colorful, and her
typeface bold. You, the girl who reads, make
me want to be everything that I am not. But
I am weak and I will fail you, because you
have dreamed, properly, of someone who is
better than I am. You will not accept the life
that I told of at the beginning of this piece.
You will accept nothing less than passion,
and perfection, and a life worthy of being
storied. So out with you, girl who reads.
Take the next southbound train and take
your Hemingway with you. I hate you. I
really, really, really hate you.”

He must think we’ll let him strut around In his confident gait,
He must think we- my spiteful heart and I, will let him brandish his nicely crooked smile for all to fawn over,
He must be utterly foolish to conclude that my twitchy eyes will see him charm another person,
How embarrassing that he thought we’d stand by as his stoic frame leaned on another’s door,
It is unacceptable to see him run a hand through his coal black hair,
How amazingly callow that he thought I’d stand by and watch from the sidelines as he charmed his way into another soon-to-be devastated heart,
He needs to know his actions won’t wash,
I need a plan.
A short, precise plan.BUT-
I can’t see another way-
I can’t think of an alternative-
I can’t.
I can’t.
We can’t.
My devastated mind and I can’t imagine an easier way out-
And, oh, my poor heart-
Beating unsteadily somewhere in my heavy chest-
He can’t give me a solution-
I need a plan.
I can feel the hot embers of rising anger,
I can feel the panic tighten my chest,
The dejection at the rejection,
I see red-
And possibly yellow-
And suddenly he’s in my line of vision-
I swear, ladies and gentlemen of the jury,
It was the anger,
Blame the anger-
Not me. Never me.
V.O